“When life gives you lemons, make lemonade”
That’s a saying many people uses when things get rough. For some, life is easy, life just flows, but for others it’s quite the opposite.
For me, it’s kind of both! Sometimes it feels like lemons are being squeezed in my eyes and in my mouth, and sometimes it feels like I’m drinking a delicious lemonade.
I’m trying my best everyday to live my life in the best possible way that I can. I want to be happy 24 hours, 7 days a week, 365 days per year. I love being happy. I feel free when I’m happy. I feel blessed. I feel ecstatic. I think the key to a healthy life is happiness.
And I do have that key in my hand. Everyday. But sometimes, I lose that key.
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I work with myself everyday. I fight to stay strong. I fight to be the best person that I can possible be for myself and the people around me. But sometimes I feel like that just isn’t enough. I feel like I can’t live up to the standard that everyone wants me to have. I’m striving to be a better version of myself everyday. It’s exhausting to feel that you’re not good enough. It’s exhausting to try and make things right everywhere. But when I do somethings right at one place, I do something wrong at another place. I just can’t be right in two places at once.
I want to be a good student. I want go grades. I want to be a good sister. A good aunt. A good daughter. A good friend. A good co-worker. And most of all, a good girlfriend for my fiancé. I just feel like I can’t do it all at once. One way or another, something or someone will be let down. And now I feel that everything is being let down, since I can’t cope with it all at once. I want to, but I can’t. I don’t have the energy or the time to do so. I feel like I’m lost in a circle without any doors to exit.
I hate the feeling of disappointing the people around me. But what it ends up with, is me disappointing myself. I try to make decisions for myself. That are good for ME. But when I do, something or someone will be let down.
I started my education in 2014 after trying two other studies before. I started that education without anyone ever telling me to do so. No one ever gave me the idea. I found it. I made the decision to do so on my own. It sounds weird, like everyone makes their own decisions when it comes to education, but for me it felt like I just tried to get an education that was expected of me. The first year went bad. Unfortunately. Because I have some problems. My number one problem is that I say yes to almost everything. I say yes to work extra shifts. I say yes to babysit. I say yes to hang out with friends. I say yes to coach a team. I say yes to literally everything. Because, if I don’t – I let them down. At least, that’s what I feel. And my second problem is that I don’t believe I’m good enough, or smart enough to get go grades. But reason number two is actually because of reason number one, since when I first have the time to actually study, I am exhausted!
I wanted this education because I know that I will be damn good at it. And I know it will let me make a lot of money. I am driven by the thought of making a lot of money. Not because I need so many stuff, but because I want the opportunity to have it. I want the opportunity to go on a nice vacation with my fiancé without worrying wether we can afford it or not.
My dad has always told me that I’m to concerned about money. And I am. It is because I am scared of being poor. I feel bad for being scared since there is so incredibly many people in this world who are. I want have an opportunity to help others, but if I’m poor I can’t do that. I care so much for others so it hurts.
I am lucky. I have a good life. I good support system around me. And as I said, mostly happy. I’ll say I’m happy 355 days per year. And that’s quite a lot. But 10 days per year, I’m sad. I’m sad for others. I’m sad for myself. I’m sad that there’s so much evil in this world. Yes, sad. It happens, right? I think everyone might experience this.
I’ve found a great way to get out of a “minor depression”. I write. I write to find inner peace. I write so maybe others in the same situation can find comfort. You’re not alone. I write so people can understand me a bit better. It makes me better!
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Before I started writing this, I was teary and I actually cried a little bit during my writing. But at the end it felt like 20 pounds was lifted of my shoulders. Writing is my therapy. I don’t know if anyone reads this or not. If so, please write my a comment. If not, well, then this is a public diary for a girl without a face. Some might recognize me through my writing and others don’t. It doesn’t really matter, but for some reason I do hope that some people I know does read it. It might help them to understand me a tiny bit better. I might be a hard nut to crack, but I assure you I have a lot of love to give. I’m kind. I’m protective. I’m a good person. I’m not a fake. I’m not perfect, but I truly try my best to be the best I can be for everyone around me – and, most importantly, for myself!